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To Write Love on her Arms

Posted by Newdoll Nikolaidis on November 12, 2009

Thank you Bama & Kate for passing on the message & all the wonderful designers for creating awareness <3

MISSION STATEMENT:

To Write Love on Her Arms is a non-profit movement dedicated to presenting hope and finding help for people struggling with depression, addiction, self-injury and suicide. TWLOHA exists to encourage, inform, inspire and also to invest directly into treatment and recovery.

VISION:

The vision is that we actually believe these things…

You were created to love and be loved. You were meant to live life in relationship with other people, to know and be known. You need to know that your story is important and that you’re part of a bigger story. You need to know that your life matters.

We live in a difficult world, a broken world. My friend Byron is very smart – he says that life is hard for most people most of the time. We believe that everyone can relate to pain, that all of us live with questions, and all of us get stuck in moments. You need to know that you’re not alone in the places you feel stuck.

We all wake to the human condition. We wake to mystery and beauty but also to tragedy and loss. Millions of people live with problems of pain. Millions of homes are filled with questions – moments and seasons and cycles that come as thieves and aim to stay. We know that pain is very real. It is our privilege to suggest that hope is real, and that help is real.

You need to know that rescue is possible, that freedom is possible, that God is still in the business of redemption. We’re seeing it happen. We’re seeing lives change as people get the help they need. People sitting across from a counselor for the first time. People stepping into treatment. In desperate moments, people calling a suicide hotline. We know that the first step to recovery is the hardest to take. We want to say here that it’s worth it, that your life is worth fighting for, that it’s possible to change.

Beyond treatment, we believe that community is essential, that people need other people, that we were never meant to do life alone.

The vision is that community and hope and help would replace secrets and silence.

The vision is people putting down guns and blades and bottles.

The vision is that we can reduce the suicide rate in America and around the world.

The vision is that we would learn what it means to love our friends, and that we would love ourselves enough to get the help we need.

The vision is better endings. The vision is the restoration of broken families and broken relationships. The vision is people finding life, finding freedom, finding love. The vision is graduation, a Super Bowl, a wedding, a child, a sunrise. The vision is people becoming incredible parents, people breaking cycles, making change.

The vision is the possibility that your best days are ahead.

The vision is the possibility that we’re more loved than we’ll ever know.

The vision is hope, and hope is real.

You are not alone, and this is not the end of your story.

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Fashionable Relay Challenge

Posted by Newdoll Nikolaidis on March 7, 2009

Ok, first things first, I have to thank Sasy for this suggestion and little kick up the bum prompt for getting me back into blogging, yes its time for me to stand up and confess, I’ve been a ‘tard, its been a few days (ok, a few more then I’d like to consider) since my last blog.

But of course, who could pass up an opportunity to go shopping on purpose? ;D

Thanks to Teagan Blackthorne for passing the baton & off I run………

I’ve gone with a Tuli skin as my baton, Teagan had a custom skin from Tuli’s Kalista range and I’ve gone with one of Tuli’s new Natalia skins, its very girly I love the sweet freckles, all the skin tones are very natural – mine is sunkissed.

I’m heading out dancing with a friend this weekend so with any sexy dance ensemble I start from the bottom up.  When it comes to dancing, shoes matter! A.L.S. A.L.S.!! Always Look Sexy!!  I’ll let you in on a secret though – the more comfortable your shoes, the longer you’ll keep partying away & stay looking sexy all night long.  Taking your shoes off at any point in the night is NOT sexy!! You won’t have that issue with the Maitreya Soho Special Edition Brown Boots, from running out to catch the cab, to leaving the club & heading to the diner afterwards, you might not want to take them off even once you do get home *wink* 

So working from my Soho’s upwards comes to my shorts, ahhhhhh I could honestly live in shorts all year around…. well ok I pretty much do.   I love going out in them too, they’re great to dance in, especially if you can’t help but jump up on a stage if the club (who? me up on stage? Both Sasy & Aaren keep telling me I’m a Rawkstar so yar, ok, I guess I like a little bit of the spotlight now & then ;D).  These are the ‘nikukyu’ shorts from MNK, & its practically a guaranteed bet that if you haven’t been there before, you’ll buy the whole store.  After I post this blog I’m heading back there, I promise I’ll leave a few select items for you to fight it out over.

Attention boys – Catfight now in progress at MNK!!

Now for my shirt…… ohhhhhhhh I spotted the ‘Valerie’ Blouse at LeeZu Baxter a couple of weeks ago when I was looking for an outfit to wear at the Bushfire Charity Auction.  Voshie & I were talking about them while I was back there tonight & even though I had already bought the olive coloured shirt to go with the shorts from MNK, I ended up getting the fatpack. Now its my mission to wear every single one of them but I know that won’t be hard because the colours go with just about everything in my wardrobe.  I’ve chosen to go sheer with the shirt to show off my best assets and am wearing the scrumptious ‘Babara’ chocolate corset from Insolence underneath.

Accessories-wise, which I don’t tend to wear a lot of so have gone with some old favourite ‘Brown wood bangles’ from Fishy Strawberry on my right arm and the ‘Nostalgia’ necklace and braclet on my left arm from LouLou.  Hair by Maitreya (oooooh i didn’t realise, top & bottom by Maitreya, lololol) ‘Apple’ in Pitch (Ok so who isn’t wearing one of Maitreya’s new styles at the moment, but honestly they are all just gorgeous!)

/me shimmies up to Chance Greatrex and hands over the Baton, have fun!

Now I just have to hope that my dancing partner can keep up with me all night long ;)

Skin: ‘Natalia’ Tuli

Tattooes: ‘Give me poison’, from Garden of Ku

Hair: ‘Apple’, Maitreya

Necklace/Bracelet: ‘Nostalgia’, LouLou

Bangles: ‘Brown wood Bangles’, Fishy Strawberry

Shirt: ‘Valerie’ Blouse from LeeZu Baxter Designs

Corset: ‘Barbarba’ chocolate Corset, Insolence

Shorts: ‘Nikukyu’, MNK

Shoes: ‘Soho’ Special Edition Brown from Maitreya

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